How to understand People!!!
“Understanding is deeper than knowledge, there are so many people who know you but very few understand you “ — Nicolas Cage
Understanding is one of the powers of human beings. Most conflicts arise when we don’t understand others and situations.
I have seen people have no time to understand things, they just reach the conclusion of what they see in front of them. For any kind of situation, if you will dig deep and look at the situations of others consciously, you will understand everything.
In a Team, if you will understand the personalities of all employees, they will be more productive, in any relationship, if both husband and wife understand each other, there will be no conflicts. If parents understand their kids there will be no more differences. You meet a lot of people, and some will like you and some not, but you should understand that you won’t be liked by everyone, every person has their own situations, interests, and passions that differentiate each other.
People are attracted to people who are similar to them and have the same interests. People who do not have the same interests will not understand each other. Every person has their own interests and background. If we will understand their situations, there will be no conflict.
Understanding People
In the world, there are so many types of personalities. Some of them are loud, some are quiet or you can say introverts and extroverts. Some people are goal-oriented, and some live in the moment. Some people are funny and some are serious. Some people are kind-hearted, and some are very sensitive. When you are good at understanding people, whenever you are around people, either at work or social, you will get a better idea of how to deal with them. Even in a family with the same mother, you will see kids with different personalities. My both kids have different personalities, one is very thoughtful and strategic and the other is assertive and observer. When kids of the same mom can be different, then how can you find the same people outside. There are so different personalities everywhere.
Personalities of People
The MBTI Types
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is so popular and designed to identify a person’s personality type, strengths, and interests. It is widely used as a psychological instrument and for career selection throughout the world. This tool was introduced by Isabel Myers and her mother Katherine Briggs based on the work of Carl Jung’s theory of personality types.
Each type is then listed by its four-letter code:
- ISTJ — The Inspector
- ISTP — The Crafter
- ISFJ — The Protector
- ISFP — The Artist
- INFJ — The Advocate
- INFP — The Mediator
- INTJ — The Architect
- INTP — The Thinker
- ESTP — The Persuader
- ESTJ — The Director
- ESFP — The Performer
- ESFJ — The Caregiver
- ENFP — The Champion
- ENFJ — The Giver
- ENTP — The Debater
- ENTJ — The Commander
I) Extrovert (E)
Extroverted people feel good when they are around people. They know how to get the attention of people. They are good at communication and have a great sense of humor. They love to go to parties and social gatherings. They are confident and popular. People love to be around them. They are good at entertaining others. They live in the moment and feel energetic when around people. They feel easily bored when they are alone. But in some situations, they are partly extroverted.
II) Introvert (I)
Introverted people are more likely to spend time alone. They are comfortable with their close family & friends. They feel bored when they go to parties and social gatherings. They are great thinkers and imaginative and due to this, they can’t focus on the present moment. Most of the people who are introverts create big things in life as they are committed to finishing what they start. This personality type can also be mixed as a half introvert and half extrovert. It can depend on situations and energies.
III) Intuitive (N)
Some people mostly make decisions on the basis of intuition. These personalities can be more introverted and believe in their own intuition more rather than the facts and details that are given to them.
IV) Feelings (F)
This type of person makes decisions on the basis of feelings, and what they feel at that current moment. These personalities don’t think too much about the future or plans. They are more reactive. They become more emotional when it is time to make decisions. This type of personality is selfless and they are good at helping people. They never think twice to help others. They are loved by most people.
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V) Judging (J)
Some people always make decisions on the basis of their experiences and facts. They are good at judging people. They are very clear about what they are going to say. They don’t care about what other people think. They believe in saying the right thing at the right moment.
VI) Sensing (S)
This kind of person can sense things. They are more logical and make sense of things on the basis of facts. This kind of person makes a decision if it makes sense to them.
VI) Perceiving (P)
People who are aware of the things around them, make a decision on the basis of observation. These people see the bigger picture of any situation. They know exactly why things happened. They are imaginative and creative. They include artists, painters, and musicians. They mostly like to spend time alone to be creative.
VII) Thinking (T)
This kind of person is a great thinker, they collect data and develop strategies. They believe in structuring and thinking before doing anything. They are organized and sometimes overthink things. These personalities are always innovative, inventing new ideas. They are good at finding solutions.
People can have mixed qualities as mentioned above. On the basis of the above information, we can recognize the personalities of all people, their actions, and their decision-making capacity. It helps in career selection, understanding people, and dealing with them.
The bottom line is that you can make your relationship better and your team will be more productive, your loved one will be more close to you. The power of understanding will help us to deal better with people and make the world a better place.
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